I am using Riot.im/Matrix #Messager
as no one did yet came up with sth. better.
- It must be Free Software to become my main Messager. (does not apply to signal/threema/telegram etc)
- It must have Federation.
- It must have Encryption.
- It must have multidevice/multios support, lets face it, the times when we had 1 trusted device are over!
+ within matrix I have a reasonably well working set of serverside bridges to other networks, especially good old irc.